Domme Trips

Check out this website: www.DommeTrips.com for more pictures of me enjoying the beautiful carribean air as I dominate slaves and whip some sense into the locals.

Dominican Domination

If you weren't there, you missed a good time. The newest event in the local fetish community: DommeTrips.com hosted by the lovely Mistress Gabriella, who will be visiting Boston later this month. Our group was on the smaller side this time, which allowed for many of us who have been seeing each other for years at larger events to take out time to get to know each other better. More quaint. More intimate. Far better Mistress to slave ratio... At least I know my slave, brutus had an unforgettable time. My own fun was limited only by the toothache which persisted through most of the trip, causing me to make plans for removal upon landing on US soil. Never again will I let a naughty molar ruin my fun!

Even without cocktails or sun (neither mix with antibiotics) I still managed to Dominate the Dominican Republic. ;-) Stay tuned for pictures and a few awesome videos, footage shot on location by Syren Productions.

Between relays and obstacle courses, teabag racing and water balloon catapulting; us Dommes really put the slaves to the test. Only the strongest survived. By the end of the week, newly conditioned, more enduring slaves emerged from within these men. We taught a sissy to enjoy ballbusting, encouraged a simple masochist to become more service oriented, and even convinced a foot fetishist to endure underwater trampling.

There will be another trip coming up this fall. This time in our home country and only for a long weekend, for those of you who can't take off a full week. The next trip hosted by Caliente Resort in Tampa, FL will be clothing optional (of course!) while that bit you chose to wear is preferred to be made from rubber. Hope to flog you there!

An Honest Question from A Slave

"Mistress are you just an actress, or are you really enjoying yourself when we play" - Good question. Well, I suppose I am an actress of sorts, or at least an aspiring one in my fetish videos. However, in sessions what you see is what you get. That is why I do such an extensive screening process over email first to get to know my prospective playthings better and make sure that we are indeed compatible. If you see me having fun, with a glow in my eye as I torture your nipples, good chance I am feeling a pretty good Domme space from getting you into your sub space. Its no coincidence that you feel an intense connection during this brief span of time, when you may catch a quick glimpse of me during one of my fiercest, most animated moments. That is no act, my pet. I find it incredibly convenient that I am able to bring you to a place of elation, while I am really just following my sadistic urges to make you hurt in places I know are attached to your pleasure zones. Why - because I can. Because you let me, because you wouldn't dream of stopping me because it turns you on too much to see that I'm aroused by exploiting your weaknesses. Of course, I look forward to pushing more boundaries...

Slaves Corner: A story of Ball Stretching

The First time I met, Goddess Deanna she told me that I had inadequate balls and that they needed to be stretched. I guess I am like a lot of guys out there where my balls don’t hang very low and hang tightly under that cock. So, Goddess Deanna has been working with me to stretch my balls. There is something erotic about the feeling of having my balls stretched. It’s intense and it adds to the control factor as, Goddess Deanna continues to train me. I keep my cock and balls shaven which allows the skin to stretch even more and when I am at work I wear rubber ball stretchers to keep the process going. When I am at home I wear the rubber ball stretchers as I sleep and at work some times I put two rubber ball stretchers on, one on top of each other. I can feel the skin start to burn just a bit during the day as the skin is stretching. I have been doing this for a couple months now and already I have noticed a difference with my balls and the skin seems to be looser.

During session time with, Goddess Deanna she has been continuing to break me down and build me back up as I learn how to serve her and better myself as a slave. Since, Goddess Deanna has been working on stretching my balls lately she has decided it would be good to start weight training with my balls. So far we have been using ball and chains, master locks as well as single weights. I believe at the moment I have used all the weights Goddess has at the moment all hung from balls at the same time. As she hangs the weights one at a time from my balls, I have to say it feels amazing. I can feel the skin around my balls starting to stretch as Goddess adds on more weight. I would like to get to the point where my balls can hold even more weight and make my balls hang even further down. Just remember all you subs out there to breathe, concentrate and build a trust with your mistress. It does feel pretty darn good having weights hung from my balls.

I love the feeling and power of a dominate woman. The feeling of, Goddess Deanna reaching down and grabbing me by the balls as she starts to squeeze as she looks me in the eye and asks, ”now slave, who do these balls belong to?” is mind blowing. When Goddess doesn’t feel she has gotten my full attention, she reaches up and starts twisting my nipples, steps back and starts kicking me in the balls. I feel her control and it starts to get my precum flowing. The harder she kicks the more intense it gets and the more she is in control.

As a slave in training, I have thought about what it would be like to give, Goddess Deanna complete control right down to my release. I recently bought a metal chastity device and am waiting for my next session to be under and key. But in the mean time just the thought of my cock being in a metal cage with out being able to touch it gets me excited. At work I have thought about it often and one day I was thinking about what it would be like to have my cock put in a metal chastity device and my precum started to flow. It ran right out of my peephole, right down my inner thigh and stopped just above my knee. I could feel the wetness in my pants as my cock was rock hard. Just knowing that my release would be up to, Goddess Deanna and that I would be giving her complete control was intense. Giving, Goddess Deanna total control is a rush, intense and orgasmic.

Valentines Voyeurs

So many folks were in awe of how I chose to spend my Valentines Day. I awoke to my lovely wife, Lexi. Truly a Goddess like myself. Her beautiful corn silk hair resting upon a pillow that had been fluffed just so the night before by our rubber baby puppy2. Looking down I could see him too, snuggled up with his rubber bone at the foot of our bed, baby ballgag hanging from his drool stained chin. Such a happy family we are. A few hours together, and then off once more to our busy lives in 3 different cities.

~ "Princess, wouldn't it be divine if we found a slave who could tend to our dream house, with a black picket fence and a dungeon in the basement;" Princess asks as she raises her head sleepily, swats puppy away from her feet and snatches his little blanket from him. "Bad puppy!" in the same breath. "you will get NO attention from your mommies today!" Once again, puppy has eaten our shoes in his sleep. Such is the life of our cuckolded rubber baby puppy. Nothing but constant abuse, from not just one, but two cruel owners.

Get back in your place right now! I am taking away your rubber puppy suit, and you are going to the mall to replace my Louboutins immediately! The heels had better be red, and you had better be back before I'm thru with my breakfast or the shade of my heels will pale in comparison to the RED I will turn your disobedient ass with my hairbrush! - I shout something along these lines as puppy scurries into his boy clothes and hurries to the door, hanging his head in shame as he covers his supercilious tail with his hands which are now both clasped tightly behind him as he had been trained. "WHAT are you waiting for?!!!" - his eyes bulge in fear, and I hear the door close behind him before I could blink.

"Well, princess," I say to Lexi, "thats twice now, how ever are we going to train this dreaded puppy not to ruin our things? He didnt even learn after the brainwashing light therapy sessions we enforced upon him yesterday." She nods and takes out her iPad, quickly drafting an ad to replace the inadequate slave. "Lesbian Power Couple Seeks Rubber-Baby-Puppy" - Don't worry, Princess, he is disposable. I'm sure we can find a new one in no time. - she smirks as she hits send, launching the ad worldwide. ~

What does the BDSM Emblem mean?

The BDSM emblem has no "obvious" symbolism because it was created to beenigmatic. To the vanilla observer who would be put off by BDSM, it is merelyan attractive piece of jewelry. Thus, we can wear it freely as a friendlysalute, nod, and wink to other BDSMers we should happen to pass on the sidewalksand in the hallways of our daily lives.

To the insider, however, the Emblem is full of meaning.

The three divisions represent the various threesomes of BDSM. First of all,the three divisions of BDSM itself: B&D, D&S, and S&M. Secondly,the three-way creed of BDSM behavior: Safe, Sane, and Consensual. Thirdly,the three divisions of our community: Tops, Bottoms, and Switches.

It is this third symbolism that gives meaning to the holes in each unit.Since BDSM is at the very least a play style and at its greatest a love style,the holes represent the incompleteness of any individual within the BDSMcontext. However "together" and "whole" individuals may be, there remainsa void within them that can only be filled by a complimentary other. BDSMcannot be done alone.

The resemblance to a three-way variation on the Yin-Yang symbol is notaccidental. As the curved outline of Yin and Yang represent the hazy borderbetween where one ends and the other begins, so do the curved borders hererepresent the indistinct divisions between B&D, D&S, and S&M.


The metal and metallic color of the medallion represents the chains or ironsof BDSM servitude/ownership. The three inner fields are black, representinga celebration of the controlled dark side of BDSM sexuality. The curved lines themselves can be seen as a stylized depiction of a lashas it swings, or even an arm in motion to deliver an erotic spanking. Theall-embracing circle, of course, represents the overlying unity of it alland the oneness of a community that protects its own.

Polyamory = Social Evolution?

"The Lifestyle refers to social/sexual relationships involving multiple partners - sometimes anonymous, sometimes standing - or, put more plainly, swinging. Recent conversations led me to consider whether Lifestyle proponents constitute a deviant subculture or in fact a logical progression toward a more natural state of relationship.

To even consider such a theory, one has to suspend their natural tendency towards the rigid moral conventions to which we have all been socialized and look at this notion from a completely objective standpoint. That is undeniably difficult, but consider it rationally for a moment.

Very few species on the planet are actually monogamous. One presumes that this is because monogamy would not be evolutionarily advantageous in terms of perpetuating a species. Marriage is a social convention imposed to legitimize human sexual activity, which, at some point in our history became something to be regulated, if not disdained.

Infidelity - be it actual, emotional or objective - is almost a given within our culture. Doesn't monogamy seem contradictory to some primal hardwiring which is innately driven to perpetuate the species? What if we were to characterize infidelity not as a moral transgression, but, rather, as unnatural restriction imposed onto a system which is inherently unwilling to adopt such a rigidity? Is it possible that we were never meant to be monogamous at all, which means in turn that all of the variations of infidelity -- whether they be actual, emotional or objective -- would be redefined as mere results of trying to fit a square peg into a round hole?

Doesn't it make sense that, at some point in our social evolution, polyamory would be re-introduced as the logical standard and that such a lifestyle is actually more in line with that evolutionary imperative to perpetuate the species."

-Michael Formica, Psychology Today